tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786501979586827216.post2109951524815389979..comments2024-03-27T19:50:25.564-07:00Comments on Dream in Color: Need vs. loveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786501979586827216.post-13523268860789185052009-04-05T13:26:00.000-07:002009-04-05T13:26:00.000-07:00Very well put! I'm glad that you have grown to rea...Very well put! I'm glad that you have grown to realize it's about you first, and the couple later. This is why we get along, and this is why we are in love.<BR/><BR/>I always askmy insecure girlfriends: How can you love anyone if you don't love yourself.<BR/><BR/>I also believe there is no such thing as someone "completing" you. It's silly, and it's nonsense.<BR/><BR/>Everyone should be whole to start with. Instead of finding "your other half," people should be looking for another WHOLE person to compliment them. In Interpersonal Relationship studies, it's called "bridging." Two whole circles coming together and connecting together on an even plane.<BR/><BR/>Sorry, I was a teacher's assistant for a class that talked about this. I can go on for days.<BR/><BR/>In any case, love shouldn't make anyone happy. At least to the point that they depend on love to make them happy. If anyone depends on love to make them "whole" or "happy," they are just setting themselves up for failure.<BR/><BR/>A significant other should ADD to your happiness, not BE it.<BR/><BR/>And in the end, a man is ever only someone to mow the lawn. :)<BR/><BR/>Love you.Oleñkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15265974294151557575noreply@blogger.com